This year for my Poppy's birthday my dad decided instead of a big party we would have every family sign up to take Poppy out to breakfast, lunch or dinner. That would give him some more individual quality time with each of our families and would spread his birthday out over a week.
I picked Poppy up and took him to pick up Port from school. Then he decided to eat at Ihop...my kids were thrilled! My mom came and met us for lunch too. Poppy "got" to sit by Haynes and Port which allowed him to be kicked, pushed, wiped syrup on, and so much more:-)
We had a great lunch and will have to do it again soon!